Split per al son ity

It seems, lately, that each day I feel differently
I want different things
I don’t know what I want.
But it changes, the not knowing. The wanting…
Jumpy and antsy
then
Grounded and mindful
Is this hormones or age or boredom or pheromones?
Or just another stage of being?

"It took me a long time to realize this: We get to choose what defines us."

— Sarah Addison Allen (via shetakesflight)

Wish list 1

Next fall I am so getting a pair of brown tall riding-style boots. Or maybe grey.

I’m kinda sad that boot season is over but bare-legged season hasn’t yet begun.

It’s these inbetweentimes that leave me chomping at the bit.

Come on, sunshine. Come on, Sunshine. Work your magic!

Don’t tempt me

He had the nerve
gall
balls
to tell me it’s “okay” to hook up with a woman
but not a man
because he knows I won’t leave him for a woman.
I so badly want to leave him for a woman!
I wasn’t planning on leaving him for anyone.
Now I’m not so sure.

Tags: ranting

figjewtons:

so you think you know what the most badass animal is
well you’re wrong because the most badass animal is actually the goat
why, you ask? well let me hit you with some KNOWLEDGE

You’re allergic to poison ivy. Goats aren’t. Goats EAT poison ivy.

Rash? No, fuck you. Nutrition,…

Tags: goats

fyeahgenderqueers:

inflateablefilth:

hidden-agender:

cammyam:

adtrforeverandalways:

ingaylove:

forqueersbyqueers:

(Picture updated 12/23/11;
Description updated 12/20/11)

LGBTQ Identities Part I - Sexual Identities

  • Heterosexual: Sexual attraction towards those of a different binary gender.
  • Homosexual: Sexual attraction towards those of the same gender.
  • Bisexual: Sexual attraction towards two genders or gender the same or different to yours.

There’s a lot of debating about my provided definition of bisexual. As of now, the definition of bisexuality is very, very subjective. Within the bisexual community (myself included) there are many who are attracted to non-binary individuals and still identify as bisexual.

The term pansexual has not always been around, and many bisexuals identified as bisexual even though the “proper” definition did not fit them as they liked.

Those of us who are attracted to non-binary people have since been fighting for the definition of bisexuality to include us, or at least include the provided definition as another or alternative.

This “wrong” definition of bisexuality was in fact created by bisexuals, not people who aren’t or people who “don’t understand bisexuality” or “are confused about terms.”

  • Pansexual: Sexual attraction towards all genders.
  • Polysexual: Sexual attraction towards multiple genders.
  • Skoliosexual: Sexual attraction towards genderqueer or non-binary people.
  • Androsexuality: Sexual attraction towards men or masculinity.
    *Depending on the person they may use Androphilia. I’ve heard both used for
  • Gynesexuality: Sexual attraction towards women or femininity.
    *Depending on the person that may use Gynophilia.

So, I’m sure most of you are familiar with a similar post that included several icons that had an identity and then a simple definition underneath it. Unfortunately that post was severely problematic. It had exclusive and erasing wording and had several definitions wrong with it.

I decided to create my own with more inclusive language, less erasive language, and proper definitions. (Though definitions can vary from region to region.) These icons are not all of the LGBTQ identities out there.There are limitless identities, and these are just some of the sexual identities that I know of.

Before you say “what about the asexuals?” like so many people before you, you might want to take the time to keep reading before you throw a fit.

This is also not the only one of these I’ll be doing. I’ll be creating more sets. One of which will be for asexual/demisexual/grey-a identities and another will be for gender identities. Stay tuned.

I’m very open to corrections and suggestions as long as they’re not rude.

I feel like there are so many labels and I understand why we have them but I feel like they are so unnecessary and I understand that they are because they are an expectation of who you’re attracted to and what gender you identify as. It’s just so many labels that I’m just like whoa. Why can’t we just label ourselves as different because everyone would have that label. I actually love the concept of that idea. Society and people want us to be a certain way and we are. We are all certainly different and it’s funny because people always TRY to be different and end up acting and looking just like some stereotype or something fact but one label we can all wear is the label society doesn’t want. We are ALL different. No need for other labels.

I hate labels, you guys are humans just like the rest of us, everyone else can fuck off and get over it. You are who you are

Your privilege is showing.

SERIOUSLY, PEOPLE.

The only folks who say “labels are useless” are those who don’t need them, because their identity labels have always been seen as normative.

Do these fucknuggets have any idea what it’s like growing up in a world where straight and cis is the default and then one day you learn a ‘label’ and suddenly your whole existence makes sense? I was seriously struggling with myself and my feelings until the word genderqueer entered my life. I NEED my ‘labels’.

Reblogging for commentary and pretty colours.

slutevsies:

not only is this a fantastic set of images, it’s also taken by an amazing AMAZING queer photographer: Cass Bird.

If y’all don’t know about her, get on it. 

(via swingsetmyribcage)

Read this!

“That women are joining in the ongoing disassembling of my appearance is salient. Patriarchy is not men. Patriarchy is a system in which both women and men participate. It privileges, inter alia, the interests of boys and men over the bodily integrity, autonomy, and dignity of girls and women. It is subtle, insidious, and never more dangerous than when women passionately deny that they themselves are engaging in it. This abnormal obsession with women’s faces and bodies has become so normal that we (I include myself at times—I absolutely fall for it still) have internalized patriarchy almost seamlessly. We are unable at times to identify ourselves as our own denigrating abusers, or as abusing other girls and women.”

falconeer:


Ashley Judd, from her powerful article that you can and _should_ absolutely read and reshare from the link below.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/04/09/ashley-judd-slaps-media-in-the-face-for-speculation-over-her-puffy-appearance.html

A little heart racing

My heart beats faster when I’m near you

and I cannot talk. Well.

And I want to touch - pulled like a magnet to - you.

This is not wrong. I will not say that this feeling is anything.

But complicated.

Appropriated

I’m having a difficult time 

imagining a situation where it would be appropriate

to say what I want to say…